Addiction to Emotion

One national study said that 34% of American women would absolutely consider INTENTIONALLY having a child without even a husband or boyfriend in their life. Many women believe that even if women cannot find a man to help them raise children, they should be allowed the right to have children anyway. I am not discussing the women who attempt (and often succeed) at convincing a man to marry them because they intentionally became pregnant. I am talking instead about women who do not even intend on finding a man, but go to sperm banks. Around 30% of all clients at sperm banks are single women with no prospects of finding a boyfriend.



Young women without loving fathers attempt to fulfill their need for men's love in other ways. Women without fathers are much more likely to become addicts, prostitutes, and single parents themselves. All women are addicts to emotional highs. That which traumatizes us in childhood becomes a scource of attraction to us as we reach puberty. If a child is raised without attention, respect, or love, the child will act out his or her aggression in various ways. Men often act out their insecurities with violence, which gives them a feeling of control they were never able to experience as a child growing up in a chaotic and unstable childhood. Men's fear of a lack of control leads them to be domineering and aggressive. They act out in this way to gain respect.



Women act out their insecurities in other ways, which makes sense because men and women are often insecure about different issues. While men are primarily insecure about their dominance, control, and freedom, women are insecure about their ability to keep a man. Every action a woman does can be traced to this insecurity in one form or another. The importance of finding and keeping a man ingenerally a pivital part in raising children. While raising children is a biological drive in all women, some are driven to raising children for another reason as well: Selfishness.
Young mothers raising children in fatherless households know that the environment is not optimal to raise a child, but they do it anyway. They were often themselves raised in fatherless homes, or homes in which the father was not a good role model. Because of this they seek approval from other men in their life and when the attention (for it is rarely true love that men give women, usually only lust) does not become enough to satisfy the woman's need for the emotional high of receiving love, they want to have a baby. They believe this baby will finally give them the unconditional love that they have been searching for their entire life. Instead of being concerned for what is best for the baby, women often have children for a selfish reason: To fulfill a need for love in their life.



If you are a single woman who is neither interesting, attractive, or nice enough for a man to want to marry you, you should not be passing your inferior DNA. You suck, and I don't want any of your crappy kids running around also needing the love from a man they never got as a child. If you feel you really need a child, the best option is to adopt. I believe a loving single mother can do a better job raising a child than foster homes, and instead of having a child only to fulfil the woman's need for love, adopting a child is not as selfish an act.

Men would never dream of raising a child if they were single, because men do not place as high a value on love like women do. If a single man with no prospects of marriage was feeling unfulfilled, he would be much more likely to just fly to Las Vegas and buy a few prostitutes.

I do not blame women for this, it is the men's fault who origionally did not give their daughters the unconditional fatherly love they needed, but women also need to realize that continuing the cycle of selfishness is only creating a less fulfilled society. Women have complete control over whether they choose to have children or not, men have no say in the matter.