Stay away from logic. You cannot logically convince a woman to feel attracted to you. Talk about scandal, drama, or conflict, but don’t get too serious about controversial topics like politics or religion, unless it is just to make fun of a group you know both of you disagree with. Look at other people on dates and try to analyze them and their relationship as a game of psychology (why do they like each other, etc). Become a renaissance man, and know the stories behind the things around you. Think of cocky statements as comebacks to uncomfortable situations, and ways to rephrase them in a funny way. Never complain about having bad luck, or about being single. You can get the answer to almost any question if you act a little suspicious, like she is acting suspicious and you are trying to get to the bottom of the mystery. If she has an interesting ring, hold her hand as you look at it, but don’t hold her hand too long. “Let me see your hands for a second” Lean in to kiss her, and just before you do, stop. Lean back and say “Not yet.” Two steps forward, one step back. Create anticipation, gently pulling her hair, smelling the back of her neck, or lightly kissing or biting her neck. Always end the date first, on a high point. The quality of the interaction is much more important than the length of the interaction.
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
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