Smart Men Are The Biggest Losers

Smart men have the hardest time with women, because they are never used to being wrong about anything. They refuse to change their way of doing things because they are never wrong. My parents are like this. I remember a story my mom told me about one of her investment classes in college. She researched various stocks to invest in as one of her class assignments, and chose a stock she knew would succeed based on everything she was taught. But the market has too many variables and is unpredictable even to the greatest investors. When my mom’s stock dropped a couple points, she still “knew” she picked a good choice, and that it would go up soon. Meanwhile, the stock continued to drop. At the end of the class her stock was doing horribly, even though all the market indicators predicted it would be a success. My mom was sure she had made the right choice, and refused to admit she could be wrong. She wasn’t used to it.

Many men think the same way when it comes to women, and even though they see that what they are doing isn’t working, they don’t change anything because they are able to rationalize in their minds why what they did was right all along. They refuse to reconsider the way they think about life and social interactions and they keep the same wrong ideas that they learned by social conditioning at a young age. Their whole lives are spent hoping that a attractive woman chooses to be with them. Attractive women usually have their choice of multiple men to be with, but even financially secure men cannot get almost any woman the same way a truly attractive woman can get with almost any man. They die never knowing how to be a man with choice. A man who could choose any woman he wanted and get her.

Men used to have choice. Everything I type is intended to help men regain some of this ability they lost about half a century ago. A successful man would essentially choose any woman he wanted to marry. If she didn’t marry him, how would she be taken care of? She couldn’t live at home all her life, and women back then didn’t work for themselves. Unless she was extremely wealthy already from some other man(father, ex-husband) she had to take what she could get. Now that women are working for themselves, they do not need men’s financial stability as much as before, although they still often do want it so they don’t have to work. Remember, what women want is security, and money provides that to an extent.

Tom Leykis(Radio Show Host) picks up women based on the principal that the only thing women want is a man’s money. He believes all attractive women are taught to be gold diggers. It isn’t that attractive women are too stupid to get high paying jobs, he states, its just that ugly chicks are the only ones who have to work for themselves and get a career. Hot women can just marry wealthy men and relax for the rest of their lives, trading sex for security. Although Leykis is correct in the fact that many attractive women never do need careers, he takes it to an extreme. He believes that the best way to pick up any and all attractive women is to trick them into thinking you are more well off than you really are. After convincing the woman that you are rich, he promotes having sex with the woman and then leaving her so she can’t get her hands on your money. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t have a problem with any of this.

I don’t have any problems with this because the only women he is picking up are essentially prostitutes, only after him for his money. They deserve what they get, which is likely some sub-standard sex and no money for it. However, women still do need men. They need men for much more than purely physical needs and money. Women need men emotionally. The better method of "seducing" women is not tricking them into thinking you are someone other than who you truly are, it should be to show her that she is more secure emotionally with you. That you understand her person, and are not affected by her persona. She is secure to be herself without judgment.