Choice

Most men court while women choose. Men buy things for women trying to manipulate them, and it is really the woman that manipulates the guy. I don’t believe in manipulating women, but I also don’t think you should let them get away with manipulating you.

When women understand that they need you, you have choice. You are able to choose when you walk into a room which women you will let sleep with you that night, if any. Wealthy men hundreds of years ago would have this choice, because financial security was what women needed most. Now that they can support themselves, we must be able to provide them with women’s secondary security need for emotional connection. The key to seduction is not trickery as Tom Leykis suggests. The key to seduction is revealing your ability to make women feel the way they want to. Most of what I type from now on will be along the lines of how to become that person, and how to show your ability to women at will.

This is a win-win situation. In the book “Seven habits of Highly Effective People”, the author suggests only allowing one type of relationships. Win-win or no deal.

“Viruses of the Mind” By Richard Brodie suggests that most of our thoughts are not our own, they are other people’s ideas that infect our minds and cause us to think we thought of it ourselves. Your thoughts are not always your own original ideas. People do not like thinking they are not in charge of their own thoughts, but they continue to lead self destructive lives using others ideas. If a woman sees tons of women chasing you, she will start to chase you herself.