Picking up women

1. Attractive women are common, so don't care too much about how a single interaction goes.

There are about 4 million babies born in the US every year. Over 2 million of those babies are female. Assuming the majority of those babies reach 18 years old, there are about 5,480 women who become legal every day. Although some certainly die before then, the birth rates are only increasing in the US, and more and more women also move to America after they are born. Therefore we will keep this number, and use it as my first rule of pickup: Women are common. Attractive women are common. Almost 5,500 women reach the legal age of consent every day, so don't waste too much mental or physical energy with one woman. She is less than 1/50th of a percent of the new available women each day. Who cares what she thinks or does? There are too many more women out there to even begin to grow concerned about a single interaction.

2. Women want to be taken.

They do. All of them. They want YOU to grab them by their hair with one hand, push them up against the wall with your other, and take them. They don't want to be made to feel as if sex was their idea. This is why women drink alcohol: Plausible Deniability. They want to be able to tell their friends that they were only going to have a drink with you, and that the one drink led to three or four, until they started to feel woozy. Then they tell their friends that she only went with you back to your house to watch a TV show, and that your living room TV was small, so you both watched it in your room where the big screen was. She wants to be able to tell her friends that one thing simply led to another, when in reality, she wanted to get laid that night from the beginning. Women drink alcohol to have an excuse, and not feel like a slut. This brings me to my third point:


3. Seduction only brings out the NATURAL nature of women.

Women in countries with less media and culture influence than the US have women who seem much more openly sexual. If you travel overseas, you see that America has some of the coldest and least flirtatious women. Women in other cultures act more sexual because it is biologically natural. Our culture suppresses our women into feeling like sluts, so they have to drink and make excuses for sleeping with men. Many pussy men feel as though using seduction techniques is manipulative and wrong, but it is not. Anything I teach you is simply a way to get women to become more comfortable with you and themselves, and open up to what is natural biologically. It is not a "trick".

4. Attraction is not a choice.

You cannot logically convince a woman to like you, any more than she can convince you that she is attractive if she is not. But women can become attracted to you based on what you say, how you act, and the confidence and vibe you exhume, and in that respect, we can influence them to be attracted to us at will. Women do not have as much control over their attractiveness, as it is mostly biological, depending on their physical looks. What I mean is this: as men we can control our attractiveness to a much greater degree, and if we do everything correctly, women cannot NOT be attracted. In the same way, we as men cannot CHOOSE to not be attracted to a super hot woman, we simply are.

5. Role play

Women love games. Some of the best ways to build attraction and connection with a woman is to role play. This could include "Adopting her as your new little sister", and treating her like a little kid, or you could simply role play that she is your secretary, assistant, or girlfriend. I have used the line "For the next 5 minutes, I'm going to adopt you as my new little sister" many times with good success. Putting a time limit on it makes her more comfortable because she knows when it will be over, just as creating a time constraint when approaching a woman also puts her at ease. This means when you speak to her for the first time, work in the fact that you have to leave soon, or that you will only be a minute because you have to do something with your friends. This not only makes her at ease, not worried that you, as a stranger, are going to follow her around all night, but it also make her listen more closely to whatever you say. This is also used in business, giving someone a false time constraint always makes them listen up more closely. Always tell her the kinds of things you will do together as part of the role playing game, and treat her just as you would be expected to. Games like this create connection, and are kind of like an inside joke which in a sense isolates the two of you from the rest of the bar, club, or house party.