Don't Ask Too Many Questions.

Men talk to women for one reason. Sex.
If a man wanted to discuss life or business issues, he would talk with another man who could better understand and offer advice. Women know this, so pretending to talk with a woman for any other reason is just delaying either sex or rejection. When you talk with a woman, she is also testing you, deciding if and when she would like to sleep with you, but she never wants to lead the interaction. Women want men in power because they can offer security, which is what all women want most.

Not being able to keep a man is every woman's greatest fear. Everything a woman does in life can be traced to this fear, just as most of men's actions can be traced to his desire for sex.

There are very few universal truths about women, but their need for security is one of them. Most men are confused by women because they listen to what words women say, instead of listening deeper to WHAT women say. Women do not often know what they want, and it is your job as a man to find out anyway.
Listen for insecurities. Does she feel unloved or unwanted? Try to fix these problems, but not by telling her what she should change. Verbalizing a solution to a woman's problems is like telling her it is her fault, and will only make her resent you.

A woman does not want to feel like the most powerful person in the room. She wants to feel like the most powerful woman. She can achieve this by showing the other women that she is secure in the care of the most powerful and dominant man in the room.

Women want to be told what to do. This does not mean men should order women to do things that they do not want to do. Some men order women around in order to make themselves feel more powerful. The man's security is dependent on the woman, which is the opposite of what the woman wants. Women can sense this insecurity. Instead, men should tell women to do things he knows she already wants to do, or take control in smaller ways. A moderately acceptable example is telling a woman to stop as she approaches a door, so that you can open it for her. Another could be telling a woman to smile or telling her to cook you a meal. It should not come out like you are ordering her around, but simply taking control of situations in which no one was clearly the leader. Expect her to follow your lead and she will follow you into the bedroom with enthusiasm; expect her to talk back and think of you as a controlling jerk, and you probably are one.

Telling other men to do things, if done in the right way, will always make women attracted to you as well. You can start with something small, like asking another man to hold your drink for a second, and work your way up. Command the respect of the men, and you will command the attraction from the women.

It is a interesting paradox to note that the more power a man lets a woman feel over him, the less she can trust in his strength, making her actually feel LESS SAFE and MORE INSECURE. She will begin to resent you for your weakness and inability to take control.
A common way of thinking for women would be: "If I can't trust you to stand up to me, how can I expect you to stand up FOR me?"

All Woman's actions can be traced to a need for security, sometimes going after rich men to become financially secure, or really fit men to feel physically protected.

Set the tone yourself, telling her what she wants to do. If you are dominant, she will want to have sex with you, but will feel slutty if she sets the pace too quickly herself. Letting her set the pace anyway will only make her feel less secure in herself. Women need to be wanted, just as men want to be needed. Women want to be pushed up against the wall and taken, but only by a man who is comfortable taking control.
Attraction is not a choice, so if you have the confident and secure vibe, women have no choice but to be attracted, just as men have no choice but to be attracted to a beautiful woman.

Don't ask too many questions of women. Anytime you think about asking a question, rephrase it into a declarative sentence. This is one of the many ways to make yourself appear more confident in yourself, and you cannot provide a woman with security until you are a leader.