Don't always (Peacock)

Practitioners of the "Mystery method" often peacock without knowing why, thereby overdoing and ruining the point of peacock theory. Peacocking is only effective if it is done with value adding routine initiators, meaning that you should wear something unique IF it has a value-adding story to it. Peacocking is also done to draw attention, but a good PUA can command the presence of most rooms anyway. Peacock theory was designed for the club. Unless it is a good conversation piece, peacocking is unnecessary in most other venues.

Women do not want tall, dark, and handsome men.
They don't.
What they want is the emotion that they believe they would feel if they were with that type of man. Any man can create this emotion, but few know how. Women live both in and for the powerful drug of emotion, men live in a world of either thought or lack of thought. Women are more audibly influenced, while men rely on visual cues. I have heard some women say that the most important sense is the ability to hear, all Men I have talked to seem to agree sight is most important. Men watch pornography while women read romance novels. They are the same thing, for different genders.

The covers of the romance novels are only attractive, muscular men to make men insecure. Body objectification is an intense emotion for most women, women's magazines objectify women much more than pornography. Women cannot help but be shown dozens of women's magazines a day in the grocery store or doctor's office, telling her how she should lose weight and buy new clothes, imprinting upon her psyche that her looks are what matter most. Men should know that their conversation and body language are most important to attract women, but there are no magazines in the stores to teach that.


CREATE EMOTION:
Do this by listening when a woman talks, and finding a part of her life that genuinely interests you. Something you can connect with. Learn to take risks and tease women in a funny way. If they are laughing, they can't be insulted, and they will then seek your approval. Compliment her rarely, and only on the things she wants to be complimented on. Attractive women want to be complimented on an aspect of their personality or a learned skill, rather than on the same body feature every other man has made a reference to. I once heard an attractive woman say "All men think that what they say is unique."

Find what she was most insecure about as a young adolescent or in high school. The imprint her insecurity had on her as a child will stay with her long into adulthood, and if you compliment that which she most wanted to improve, it will be a much more emotionally powerful experience for her.
Also ROLE PLAY, but don't work too hard trying to make her happy, Know this:
Women are competing for YOU.
Watch how women dress, put on makeup, and behave. They are competitive with each other, all wanting to look the best. Why? Because they know that the best looking women get the most powerful men, The men who can take control. Women put on makeup, buy expensive clothes, get their hair and nails done, exercise, and go on laboring diets so they can look their absolute best. For you.
So do your part: Control the room. Dominant, not domineering. Tell yourself you own it. Tell yourself that all the other men in the room are your employees, that you are their leader. Know that all the women are having fantasies with you in their minds. Bring them into your own reality. Make women work for your approval.

I do not brag about my sexual conquests, and I don't need a woman or sex to make me complete. I will only admit to sleeping with a woman once I know she has bragged about it to her friends. In this way I show my respect for her privacy, and by not making a big deal out of it, while she tells everyone she knows, it reinforces that I am the prize.

Men look at taller, more muscular men and assume that's what women want, but women seem to go home more often with scrawny guys. Women DO want to be taken, but not by someone who is truly intimidating and might make her "no" mean "yes" after a couple beers, so don't stress about being short or scrawny, concentrate on how to give women the emotion of power they want.


Everyone sets their own market price.