Dance Club Game:
DO NOT:
Buy women drinks,
hold your own drink up near your face or chest as if you are hiding behind it,
Grind on random women,
Be quiet,
Drink too much,
Fail to address and impress the girl's friends(because they WILL cock block you)
Many men learn the fundamental basics of how to work club game, but still act too needy, unknowingly. At first, you may not have the confidence to dance with random women, which means you should, to overcome your fears, but after you do, it might be best to stop.
I have talked to tons of women who are creeped out by random guys grinding on them, and much more intrigued by the guys who don't.
Confidence is everything: If you are not dancing with women because you are not confident enough to, maybe you should spend a few weeks getting comfortable with dancing with random girls. Women can tell if you have the confidence to dance but choose not to, instead of simply not being confident enough to approach them on the dance floor. As with every pick-up scenario, inner game is most important.
When in a busy bar or club, with loud music and dancing, most guys look like total choads. They go onto the dance floor and try to grind on as many attractive girls as they can. It feels good at the time, but you end up not going home with any of them, except for the occasional totally drunk one. This is not good game. Good game is not needy, not needing her to fulfill you. It comes from a place of confidence in yourself.
You are the prize.
If a girl does and says all the right things to you, you MIGHT let her fuck you.
Do not grind on the girls on the dance floor unless you brought them there and have already created attraction. Let them dance around you, concentrate on having a good time yourself, and with your friends. If a girl grinds on you, you don't need to push her away, but in some cases, it couldn't hurt if you acted a little put off at first. Make them work for it, your mental state should never be effected by the women's reactions.
Friday, May 16, 2008
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