Don't Ask Too Many Questions.

Men talk to women for one reason. Sex.
If a man wanted to discuss life or business issues, he would talk with another man who could better understand and offer advice. Women know this, so pretending to talk with a woman for any other reason is just delaying either sex or rejection. When you talk with a woman, she is also testing you, deciding if and when she would like to sleep with you, but she never wants to lead the interaction. Women want men in power because they can offer security, which is what all women want most.

Not being able to keep a man is every woman's greatest fear. Everything a woman does in life can be traced to this fear, just as most of men's actions can be traced to his desire for sex.

There are very few universal truths about women, but their need for security is one of them. Most men are confused by women because they listen to what words women say, instead of listening deeper to WHAT women say. Women do not often know what they want, and it is your job as a man to find out anyway.
Listen for insecurities. Does she feel unloved or unwanted? Try to fix these problems, but not by telling her what she should change. Verbalizing a solution to a woman's problems is like telling her it is her fault, and will only make her resent you.

A woman does not want to feel like the most powerful person in the room. She wants to feel like the most powerful woman. She can achieve this by showing the other women that she is secure in the care of the most powerful and dominant man in the room.

Women want to be told what to do. This does not mean men should order women to do things that they do not want to do. Some men order women around in order to make themselves feel more powerful. The man's security is dependent on the woman, which is the opposite of what the woman wants. Women can sense this insecurity. Instead, men should tell women to do things he knows she already wants to do, or take control in smaller ways. A moderately acceptable example is telling a woman to stop as she approaches a door, so that you can open it for her. Another could be telling a woman to smile or telling her to cook you a meal. It should not come out like you are ordering her around, but simply taking control of situations in which no one was clearly the leader. Expect her to follow your lead and she will follow you into the bedroom with enthusiasm; expect her to talk back and think of you as a controlling jerk, and you probably are one.

Telling other men to do things, if done in the right way, will always make women attracted to you as well. You can start with something small, like asking another man to hold your drink for a second, and work your way up. Command the respect of the men, and you will command the attraction from the women.

It is a interesting paradox to note that the more power a man lets a woman feel over him, the less she can trust in his strength, making her actually feel LESS SAFE and MORE INSECURE. She will begin to resent you for your weakness and inability to take control.
A common way of thinking for women would be: "If I can't trust you to stand up to me, how can I expect you to stand up FOR me?"

All Woman's actions can be traced to a need for security, sometimes going after rich men to become financially secure, or really fit men to feel physically protected.

Set the tone yourself, telling her what she wants to do. If you are dominant, she will want to have sex with you, but will feel slutty if she sets the pace too quickly herself. Letting her set the pace anyway will only make her feel less secure in herself. Women need to be wanted, just as men want to be needed. Women want to be pushed up against the wall and taken, but only by a man who is comfortable taking control.
Attraction is not a choice, so if you have the confident and secure vibe, women have no choice but to be attracted, just as men have no choice but to be attracted to a beautiful woman.

Don't ask too many questions of women. Anytime you think about asking a question, rephrase it into a declarative sentence. This is one of the many ways to make yourself appear more confident in yourself, and you cannot provide a woman with security until you are a leader.

Don't always (Peacock)

Practitioners of the "Mystery method" often peacock without knowing why, thereby overdoing and ruining the point of peacock theory. Peacocking is only effective if it is done with value adding routine initiators, meaning that you should wear something unique IF it has a value-adding story to it. Peacocking is also done to draw attention, but a good PUA can command the presence of most rooms anyway. Peacock theory was designed for the club. Unless it is a good conversation piece, peacocking is unnecessary in most other venues.

Women do not want tall, dark, and handsome men.
They don't.
What they want is the emotion that they believe they would feel if they were with that type of man. Any man can create this emotion, but few know how. Women live both in and for the powerful drug of emotion, men live in a world of either thought or lack of thought. Women are more audibly influenced, while men rely on visual cues. I have heard some women say that the most important sense is the ability to hear, all Men I have talked to seem to agree sight is most important. Men watch pornography while women read romance novels. They are the same thing, for different genders.

The covers of the romance novels are only attractive, muscular men to make men insecure. Body objectification is an intense emotion for most women, women's magazines objectify women much more than pornography. Women cannot help but be shown dozens of women's magazines a day in the grocery store or doctor's office, telling her how she should lose weight and buy new clothes, imprinting upon her psyche that her looks are what matter most. Men should know that their conversation and body language are most important to attract women, but there are no magazines in the stores to teach that.


CREATE EMOTION:
Do this by listening when a woman talks, and finding a part of her life that genuinely interests you. Something you can connect with. Learn to take risks and tease women in a funny way. If they are laughing, they can't be insulted, and they will then seek your approval. Compliment her rarely, and only on the things she wants to be complimented on. Attractive women want to be complimented on an aspect of their personality or a learned skill, rather than on the same body feature every other man has made a reference to. I once heard an attractive woman say "All men think that what they say is unique."

Find what she was most insecure about as a young adolescent or in high school. The imprint her insecurity had on her as a child will stay with her long into adulthood, and if you compliment that which she most wanted to improve, it will be a much more emotionally powerful experience for her.
Also ROLE PLAY, but don't work too hard trying to make her happy, Know this:
Women are competing for YOU.
Watch how women dress, put on makeup, and behave. They are competitive with each other, all wanting to look the best. Why? Because they know that the best looking women get the most powerful men, The men who can take control. Women put on makeup, buy expensive clothes, get their hair and nails done, exercise, and go on laboring diets so they can look their absolute best. For you.
So do your part: Control the room. Dominant, not domineering. Tell yourself you own it. Tell yourself that all the other men in the room are your employees, that you are their leader. Know that all the women are having fantasies with you in their minds. Bring them into your own reality. Make women work for your approval.

I do not brag about my sexual conquests, and I don't need a woman or sex to make me complete. I will only admit to sleeping with a woman once I know she has bragged about it to her friends. In this way I show my respect for her privacy, and by not making a big deal out of it, while she tells everyone she knows, it reinforces that I am the prize.

Men look at taller, more muscular men and assume that's what women want, but women seem to go home more often with scrawny guys. Women DO want to be taken, but not by someone who is truly intimidating and might make her "no" mean "yes" after a couple beers, so don't stress about being short or scrawny, concentrate on how to give women the emotion of power they want.


Everyone sets their own market price.

Dance Club Game

Dance Club Game:

DO NOT:
Buy women drinks,
hold your own drink up near your face or chest as if you are hiding behind it,
Grind on random women,
Be quiet,
Drink too much,
Fail to address and impress the girl's friends(because they WILL cock block you)


Many men learn the fundamental basics of how to work club game, but still act too needy, unknowingly. At first, you may not have the confidence to dance with random women, which means you should, to overcome your fears, but after you do, it might be best to stop.

I have talked to tons of women who are creeped out by random guys grinding on them, and much more intrigued by the guys who don't.

Confidence is everything: If you are not dancing with women because you are not confident enough to, maybe you should spend a few weeks getting comfortable with dancing with random girls. Women can tell if you have the confidence to dance but choose not to, instead of simply not being confident enough to approach them on the dance floor. As with every pick-up scenario, inner game is most important.

When in a busy bar or club, with loud music and dancing, most guys look like total choads. They go onto the dance floor and try to grind on as many attractive girls as they can. It feels good at the time, but you end up not going home with any of them, except for the occasional totally drunk one. This is not good game. Good game is not needy, not needing her to fulfill you. It comes from a place of confidence in yourself.

You are the prize.
If a girl does and says all the right things to you, you MIGHT let her fuck you.
Do not grind on the girls on the dance floor unless you brought them there and have already created attraction. Let them dance around you, concentrate on having a good time yourself, and with your friends. If a girl grinds on you, you don't need to push her away, but in some cases, it couldn't hurt if you acted a little put off at first. Make them work for it, your mental state should never be effected by the women's reactions.

Picking up women

1. Attractive women are common, so don't care too much about how a single interaction goes.

There are about 4 million babies born in the US every year. Over 2 million of those babies are female. Assuming the majority of those babies reach 18 years old, there are about 5,480 women who become legal every day. Although some certainly die before then, the birth rates are only increasing in the US, and more and more women also move to America after they are born. Therefore we will keep this number, and use it as my first rule of pickup: Women are common. Attractive women are common. Almost 5,500 women reach the legal age of consent every day, so don't waste too much mental or physical energy with one woman. She is less than 1/50th of a percent of the new available women each day. Who cares what she thinks or does? There are too many more women out there to even begin to grow concerned about a single interaction.

2. Women want to be taken.

They do. All of them. They want YOU to grab them by their hair with one hand, push them up against the wall with your other, and take them. They don't want to be made to feel as if sex was their idea. This is why women drink alcohol: Plausible Deniability. They want to be able to tell their friends that they were only going to have a drink with you, and that the one drink led to three or four, until they started to feel woozy. Then they tell their friends that she only went with you back to your house to watch a TV show, and that your living room TV was small, so you both watched it in your room where the big screen was. She wants to be able to tell her friends that one thing simply led to another, when in reality, she wanted to get laid that night from the beginning. Women drink alcohol to have an excuse, and not feel like a slut. This brings me to my third point:


3. Seduction only brings out the NATURAL nature of women.

Women in countries with less media and culture influence than the US have women who seem much more openly sexual. If you travel overseas, you see that America has some of the coldest and least flirtatious women. Women in other cultures act more sexual because it is biologically natural. Our culture suppresses our women into feeling like sluts, so they have to drink and make excuses for sleeping with men. Many pussy men feel as though using seduction techniques is manipulative and wrong, but it is not. Anything I teach you is simply a way to get women to become more comfortable with you and themselves, and open up to what is natural biologically. It is not a "trick".

4. Attraction is not a choice.

You cannot logically convince a woman to like you, any more than she can convince you that she is attractive if she is not. But women can become attracted to you based on what you say, how you act, and the confidence and vibe you exhume, and in that respect, we can influence them to be attracted to us at will. Women do not have as much control over their attractiveness, as it is mostly biological, depending on their physical looks. What I mean is this: as men we can control our attractiveness to a much greater degree, and if we do everything correctly, women cannot NOT be attracted. In the same way, we as men cannot CHOOSE to not be attracted to a super hot woman, we simply are.

5. Role play

Women love games. Some of the best ways to build attraction and connection with a woman is to role play. This could include "Adopting her as your new little sister", and treating her like a little kid, or you could simply role play that she is your secretary, assistant, or girlfriend. I have used the line "For the next 5 minutes, I'm going to adopt you as my new little sister" many times with good success. Putting a time limit on it makes her more comfortable because she knows when it will be over, just as creating a time constraint when approaching a woman also puts her at ease. This means when you speak to her for the first time, work in the fact that you have to leave soon, or that you will only be a minute because you have to do something with your friends. This not only makes her at ease, not worried that you, as a stranger, are going to follow her around all night, but it also make her listen more closely to whatever you say. This is also used in business, giving someone a false time constraint always makes them listen up more closely. Always tell her the kinds of things you will do together as part of the role playing game, and treat her just as you would be expected to. Games like this create connection, and are kind of like an inside joke which in a sense isolates the two of you from the rest of the bar, club, or house party.